HISTORY AND CREATION OF THE IGBO UNION AROUND THE WORLD

I coming from the Yoruba tribe and living in Lagos, have so much love the Igbo culture, lived and have them as friends , a friend of mine here from Jamaica always referred to himself as “Jam Igbo” he believe that if he was from Nigeria, he will be from the Igbo Community. The Igbo is a strong community here and back home and also known as hard working people, not all is positive but I believe we all have our negative side as people and as a community. Although most studies on Ndigbo claim that before the British colonial enterprise, Igbo societies existed as fragmented Village Republics. However, by the mid-nineteenth century, Ndigbo had developed a strong sense of national identity and there is also some evidence of ancient Igbo Empires. Two of such Empires identified by B. O. N. Eluwa, one-time Secretary General of Igbo Federal Union, were the Ado-Na-Idu and Nri Empires. Indeed, before the 20th century there were numerous pan-Igbo unions and organizations existing around the world. There was the Igbo Union in Bathurst, Gambia in 1842, founded by a prominent Igbo trader and ex-slave named Thomas Refell. Another was the Igbo Union founded by the Igbo Community in Freetown, Sierra Leone by 1860. The renowned Igbo anti-colonialist leader, Africanus Horton, a surgeon, scientist and soldier, was an active member of the Igbo Community in Freetown.” Olaudah Equiano, the famous 18th century ex-Igbo slave, carried with him his Igbo national consciousness into Europe. This was obvious in his 1789 Narrative, where he described his Igbo nation as “A land of Happy Clean people, without drunkards, without unemployment, without beggars and without prostitution”. There is no doubt that Equiano made these remarks as a comprising of life in his native Igbo land with the social predicament of the early European industrial society. Rise of Pan-Igbo Organization in the 20th Century; Back home, “the 1930s saw the rise of Igbo unions as organizations of indigenes of various Igbo towns, clans and divisions in the cities of Lagos and Port Harcourt”. One of the most popular appellations to those unions was “improvement unions”, evidence of the philosophy that motivated their formation. The original impetus for the formation of the various town, clan and divisional unions was the collective welfare of their members as well as for the social, cultural, economic and educational improvement and advancement of both their respective communities and the communities in which they were resident. One of the greatest achievements of these pan-Igbo organizations was the promotion of Igbo identity, which initially flowed from the fact of a common language, common culture and shared values, all of which eventually led to search for common ancestral origins of the Ndigbo as well as discovering the link between Ndigbo and other ethnic groups in Africa in general and Nigeria in particular. Dr Nnamdi Azikiwe was one of the early searchers in this direction according to Rt. The Hon. Chief Dennis Osadebay, the first Secretary-General of the Igbo Federal Union in 1943, In those days we all longed for a greater knowledge of our Igbo historical past and identity beyond our common heritage of the Igbo language (Eluwa, 2008, p. xiv). Igbo Federal Union; In the thirties, Igbo Unions were formed in the urban townships of Lagos and Port Harcourt. The Lagos Igbo Union was formed in 1934 to unite all town, clan and district unions in Lagos into one national body. According to c. De Aguomba, The history of the pan-Igbo organization goes back to the early 193o’s when some Igbo in Lagos formed the Lagos Igbo Union in order to organize a reception for Dr Akanu Ibiam, the second Igbo medical doctor who had returned from Britain where he had qualified. The Union brought together several towns, clans and divisional organizations and became a voice for Igbo and its objectives were mainly for the welfare of the Igbo in Lagos. The first actual Pan-Igbo organization uniting these various town, clan and divisional or district unions in various cities in Nigeria was Igbo Federal Union, whose formation was spearheaded by the Igbo Union, Lagos, in 1943. The weakness of the Igbo Federal Union was due to the fact that it was merely an association of town, clan and divisional unions in cities. Its influence was therefore limited; as it was unable to mobilize people in towns, clans or divisions in Igboland. Igbo State Union; In December 1948, a pan-Igbo Conference was held at Port Harcourt attended by Igbo Unions in the various cities in Nigeria, including representations of home-based unions in Igboland. The aim was “to organize the Ibo linguistic group into a political unit in accordance with the NCNC Freedom Charter” The Conference led to the formation of a new association, the Ibo State Union. Its membership was open to the clans and towns of Ibo-land as well as those in various non-Igbo cities throughout Nigeria. This development was also influenced by the dynamics of the anti-colonial struggle and the early signals of the nature of political struggle in a multi-ethnic society. According to c. De Aguomba, The founders of the new union had anticipated that Nigeria would be re-arranged into states based on cultural and linguistic affinity, and Igbo State would be a member of the Commonwealth of Nigeria… This certainly was the idea Nnamdi Azikiwe advocated in his book, Political Blueprint for Nigeria published in 1943. The idea of forming ethnic-based socio-cultural and political organizations was already gaining grounds in Nigeria, the first such ethnic-based organization was the Ibibio State Union which was formed in the early thirties. Such developments stemmed from the increasing realization that the most decisive forces in the power struggle in a multi-ethnic society are the ethnic groups and not individuals. And as such there must be some organizational instrument to defend and promote the interest of each ethnic group. Dr Nnamdi Azikiwe understood this fact when he inspired the formation of the new Igbo State Union and became its pioneer President. However, Zik’s weakness as an organizer led to his failure to sustain the needed political equilibrium between the National Council of Nigerian and the Cameroons (NCNC) of which he was President and the Igbo state Union. According Richard L. Sklar, > The founders of the Ibo State union were no less politically motivated than were the organizers Of the Egbe Omo ODUDUWA; at least nine of the thirteen inaugural members of the unions provisional committee rose to high office in the NCNC, and seven of them have attained ministerial rank in the Eastern, Central and Federal Governments. (Sklar 1963, p. 70)

THE IGBO GALA NIGHT @ CARLTON HOTEL, SUSUANA ON THE RED CARPET

PRESS RELEASE FOR AFRICA HISTORY MONTH IRELAND 2014

THE AFRICA HISTORY MONTH IRELAND IN THE MONTH "NOVEMBER" AHMI 2014

AHMI 2014 to celebrate the history, contribution, participation, heritage and impact of all African's Living in Ireland on a yearly bases in the month of "November" for remembrance of important people and events in the history of Africans in Diaspora. Susuana Olatunji Komolafe initiate the Celebration AHMI 2010 standing for what I believe and now, there is changes around the world with the use of the Word African, like African –Americans. The initiative of celebrating "Africa History Month Ireland" and used the term OR word OR recognizing the continent and wide cultural heritage ‘Africans’ to denote ‘color’ or ‘black’ persons. I’m well aware that I have deployed the term un-problematically given the on-going changes of seeing Africans as Black People, we are Africans first, not Black People, am Africa from Nigerian with black skin complexion wish am proud to be.

The AHMI will take place in 5 various Counties, Cavan, Meath, Galway, Cork & Dublin. Come and Join the planning team and committee for Africa History Month Ireland November 2014. Book a stand at “The National Conference Africa History Month Ireland” on the 23^rd November at Carlton Hotel Blanchardstown, Tyrellstown, Dub 15, 4pm prompt -8pm.

JOIN US IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN PARTICIPATING ON THE PROJECT
If you are an African author, kindly make contact with the Committee of African History Month Ireland to participate in the "African Author Day" during the month of November in celebrating African presence here in Ireland and contribution to art and creativity to share the diverse. We will also have African Author from Northern Ireland @ the event. A Book Fair, reading and a chance to become an Author.

ACTIVITIES THROUGHOUT THE MONTH OF NOVEMBER 1^ST -30^TH

You are all invited as well on the 1st November to the Opening Ceremony "Gospel Praise Night" Cavan to celebrate presence of African here in Ireland, to praise our creator for his kindness and love. All proceed toward Renovation Fund Church of Ireland Cavan. Come let us praise Our Lord!.
Date: 1st Saturday November 2014; Venue: Church of Ireland Cavan, Opposite Court House, Beside Garda station Cavan; Time: 8:00 pm - 9:00 pm.

SUSUANA ROADSHOW WORKSHOP AND ADCENTER TRANSFORMING LIFE

THEME A WOMAN’S WORLD

Date: 6^th and 7^th November; Time: 6^th from 6pm- 10pm and 7^th from 12noon -4pm

Venue:  Alpha Training Centre, Bective Street, Kells, Meath. Opposite Esso Petrol Station, Beside HSE Office; Workshop Training Content: Sexology, Family Planning, Relationship, Legal Knowledge in a relationship, Makeup, Body Image and Fashion Drama Consultation.

If you are interested in attending this two day workshop of 8hrs attendance in total, contact us with your details and share with friends on adcenter25@yahoo.ie or 0894776061/0863370163/ 0873618587. The workshop is “FREE” but registration is compulsory and attendance.

PRESENCE OF AFRICANS IN CAVAN & STORY OF AFRICA

The Cavan Meath Africa Film Festival is part of the activities for the Africa History Month Ireland November 2014. Come on board, be part of the AHMI. We are having workshop on the story of Africa Origin and also Photo Exhibition, Display of heritage, Films, Africa Games and entertainment

Venue: Cavan Library

Date: 21^st Friday, 22^nd Saturday and 25^th Tuesday November, 2014

Time: Friday & Saturday 10-5pm, Break 1.00pm -2:15pm and Tuesday 10-8pm

We also collaborate with National Youth Council of Ireland in Celebrating "One World Week” which focuses on Youth, Young ones making a difference in the communities and special focus on Africa Youth called “Inspiration for Young Africa” where young people will have opportunity to showcase their various talent and strength.

"Say Know to Violent toward Women" Currently in Ireland, one in every eight pregnant women will suffer from some form of domestic abuse; we join force with Women Aid to create awareness during the program on the “National Balloon Action 2014” where our Legal Associate Member Cyril & Co. Solicitor will share with us.

We are also launching our new Initiative "Africa Caribbean Diaspora Men Forum" To celebrate men in our life, the impact of men in the society and working with positive men, also positive image for African men, youth and boys.

"The mission is to help our community thrive economically, ecologically, educationally and culturally, advancing their knowledge within the society we live and Media and Newspapers will be at hand to welcome contributors and cover all activities.

As a woman I have come to the realization of the important of playing my role within the society, in the world and as a believer in creating a comfort zone for every woman in life and in our spiritual journey with our Creator. 

The purpose of this project is to explore African history, culture, heritage, experience, creativity in writing, knowledge as seen by Africans worldview and African literature through solely African authors and people with knowledge of Africa  and Africa impact in the world development.

The Africa History Month Ireland is kicking off with a great event this year 2014 and we want everyone to support us in celebrating Africans Presence here in Ireland. The Recognition of the role of Africans in Ireland to celebrate "Africa History Month" Initiated here in Ireland since 2010 by Susuana O.M Olatunji-Komolafe in recognition of the contribution of all Africans that has lived or still living in the Republic of Ireland, which have played a positive role and make an impact in the society. As Africans we share history with Africans Americans, African British living here and back home as they also celebrate. To allow youth, children and young generation understand the beauty of their roots and staying strong in addressing the opportunities and challenges of being a minority in Ireland.

Big thanks to my board, friends, supporters, funders and everyone that believes in the vision.

"I have a vision. It is a vision deeply rooted in the Africa culture. I have a vision that one day in the Africa culture all over the world and throughout the universe that the sons of former slaves, Freed Blacks, and native Africans will be proud of their culture and we'll be able to live together as brothers and sisters. I have a vision that one day in African culture, the cultural science of “Blacology” will become real and Africa culture will roll down like waters and our history like a mighty stream"

AFRO CARIB LIFESTYLES & ACHIEVERS 

AFRICA HISTORY MONTH IRELAND {AFRICAN PRESENCE IN IRELAND 2013}

The African History Month preparation is starting again and we love to carry you on from the beginning and also help with the press release. Its four years now since 2010 that we have being celebrating the presence of African in Ireland and their contribution to the nation.

This initiative is organised by “The Afro in Diaspora Center”. Afro in Diaspora is a new group committed to supporting Women, Men and Children in OUR HOMELAND Nigeria, who live in poverty, need someone to support their dreams and experience a difference the best way they can.

To keep supporting Women, Men and Children in (AFRICA) and also to support ourselves by educating, informing, counselling, socializing and promoting each other as a group, while we hope and believe that the knowledge acquired will be passed down to support others. This is celebrated around the world, February as black history month celebrated in USA, Britain celebrate the month in October and we want to join in celebrating as well. We need your support in organizing the activities and sharing the event with everyone.

Black History Month is a remembrance of important people and events in the history of the African Diaspora. Since 1976, it is celebrated annually in the United States of America and Canada in February and the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland in the month of October.

Here in Ireland we have started to celebrate “Africa History Month Ireland” since 2010 making history and becoming part of the story. We have had success and each year we are hoping to improve with everyone support. We are including the upcoming activities of participant and places, the theme for the year is “African’s Here We Are”

Report From "The Africa History Month Ireland Committee" 2nd Meeting on the 19th of July @ 43 Lower Gardiner, Dublin. Registration for Stand: A Stand @ all location Galway, Cavan and Dublin If you like to have a stand @ the National Conference coming up on the 24th of November Carlton Hotel Blanchardstown @ Africa History Month Ireland, call now to book a stand. Opportunity to showcase the best of Africa and what you do or sell

The "AHMI" PROGRAM FOR THE MONTH OF NOVEMBER 2013 

Week One Location Dublin 

Creating Awareness on radio, television, newspaper and social media Opening, Press Release & Exhibition of Tribal Africa

Week Two Location Cavan and Galway 

Cavan African Film's Festival and Workshop on Women Affairs Theme: African Here We Are and Title: A Woman’s World Workshop on Men Affairs Title: A Man’s World

Week Three Location Nationwide 

Presence of African's in Ireland @ Schools and Meet African Achiever's living in Ireland Radio interviews on Various Radio's Station

Week Four Location Dublin 

Social Night: Diaspora Night @ No-boring Junction, Duleek. 22nd November. National Conference on the 24th@Carlton Hotel

 

SEXOLOGY CONSULTANT: WOMEN SEXUAL LIFE

SEXOLOGY


A very big thank you to my " Friends" that came to support my " Women Sexual Life" Workshop on 12th July,2012 at the Blanchardstown Library. Also to those that came for the workshop. My appreciation to Folake Jubril, Tina Akinola-Jinad, Tracey Arkins, Imanmodestwears, Ebun Akpoveta, Dr Livingstone Thompson and Ivy for their contribution toward being part of the success of the workshop. Most of all God Jehovah for the beginning of a great thing in my life and my love to my children for their everyday love and support. The workshop was a great success and well attended by the participant that took part, We had an up coming make-up artist "Tracey Arktins" she did the make up for most of the and did a demonstration with beauty tips. "Tina Tinuke Akinola-Jinad" also was there to showcase her Ankara for the "Ankara Carnival" coming up in October at the Gresham Hotel costing 30euro for those that will be interested in buying. A special tribute was also made in respect of the mother of one of the Director of Afro in Diaspora Center "Folake Freda Jubril" that lost her mother to cancer. The workshop was fun and full of activities, stall by PurpleVine with 50% sales on her bags and Iman Modest Wear from Artlone. These are some of the question that came up at the workshop by the participant and I believe most speak for all the women out there! Question: How do other women feel about going through the menopause? Answer: We all feel different about menopause but it's a natural process that every woman will have to go through, so we need to develop a positive attitude toward it. If you become sexual very active during the period of menopause than you will never notice that it’s happen. More sex does help, it doesn’t have to be sexual intercourse but a "Positive Sexual Thinking" Thinking sexually by changing your mind setting toward sex and your body expression, eating well and more outing all will help us as women in coping at the stage. Menopause (MEN-oh-pawz) is a normal stage in a woman's life when her monthly period comes to an end. Question: Is it a shame to do "A Blow Job" on your husband? Answer: I don’t think it's a shame to do anything in this world with your husband, but it depends on the attitude both of you have toward having sex as a couple. It’s very important that as a couple you develop a positive mental approach to sex, educate yourself about the fact of having sex. You have to understand that you are both expressing your love through making love together as one and knowing that it's an act of love making and there are no set rules, ways or method that is either wrong or right but what is right is what you both feel comfortable about doing with each other. Also it should be both ways that is vice versa. Question: View or Opinion on Sex Toys? Answer: It depend if you both love to explore. Just remember that it allows you discover yourself but I won’t advice that if you are single to get use to making use of Sex toys because it can become an addiction which can affect your relationship. Question: How do you know if a man loves you? Answer: Believe me that his a very difficult one to say but what am sure of, is that it's more easy to know when a man is Sexually attracted to you than if he loves you. Question: What makes a man to change from responsible to irresponsible? Answer: Weakness’, lack of faith, and thoughtfulness. Ladies this is just the begining of fun educative sexual life. Susuana Olatunji- Komolafe CEO, Afro in Diaspora Center Freelance Training, Entertainment and Sexology Consultant Email: adcenter25@yahoo.ie Website: www.adcenter.yolasite.com

AFRICAN HISTORY MONTH IRELAND 2013

Galway here I come!! Ladies this is another fun time for you all to join me @ Westside Library in Galway, where we get talking on "A Woman's World" the content will include, Relationship, Religion, Fashion, Sex & Our Mental Health. Let Get Talking!!! Do you have a friend living in Galway,Tell your friend about it, recommend the workshop, lots of goodies in the house, "Circle of Fame" will be there.


 

LIFE IS A JOUNERY AS WE CELEBRATE AFRICA DAY AND THE 50TH ANIVERSARY OF” ORGANISATION OF AFRICAN UNION” Relationship last when two people make a decision or choice to fight, keep it or make it work. It's a union of d forgiver's. As Africans the journey of life is in evitable and culturally believe that it’s a repeatable process. Life is worth exploring and as African that is what we do, by travelling around and with our journey to Ireland. According to African believes “The dead were buried with their finest possessions, personal possessions and clothing for use in the next world” because they believe that after death you beginning another journey in life. Now I realise the journey of life thus not end with death but begins with your creator. Over time I have discovered there is no absolute finish line for everyone in the race of life. Our tracks are different and our durations are different. The only thing we have in common is the same empire. For instance, one person graduates @ age 20 and struggles for another 5 years to get a job, another might graduate @ 25 and get a job immediately. One can marry a virgin and wait for the next decade to have the blessings of children, another lady probably after having series of abortions in her past, becomes a mother almost immediately after marriage. A fellow becomes MD @ 38 and dies @ 56, another becomes MD @ 55 and lives to 90. What a life! Life is full of twists, turns, ups and downs and many more surprises and disappointments. Life offers each one of us different opportunities and once an opportunity is lost, it's gone forever except by the grace of God. It is up to each one of us to patiently prepare, wait, recognise and utilise every opportunity. We learn on the way. No one knows it all or has it better. There is a reason why we all don't fall @ the same time. It's so that when one is down, weak and discouraged, the other who is strong, can encourage and lift the other person. God never promise that the road would be easy but he promised never to leave nor forsake us. Although life is a competition, let us learn to go easy on ourselves and trust that God is working it all out for good (even if it doesn't make sense now). I know that there is a time for everything but most importantly that “it will come to pass ". Whatever trials, challenges or down time, this too shall pass and in due course, u will be up and strong again to lift up those who maybe down around u......NEVER LOSE HOPE..., I don’t know where myself fall into but with this am hoping to discover. Most of all life is a journey and love is inevitable also part of it....... Happy African Day from me and the team here at AfricaVoice celebrating the joy and journey of life.

SEX BOMB

I hope this column WILL be educative, interesting, fun, helpful, improve your sex life’s, add flavour, stability and more love in your relationships and marriages. As we know SEX is the most pleasurable thing and as women we need to embraces sex and improve on our sexual relationship. As a woman ask your man or talk to them about what you like and want them to pleasure you with(Oral sex) if you want ask and pleasure yourself in it, most men don’t like given oral sex as well as most women don’t and its all about the way we define sex, moral and what we feel is cool. I know that its a big step when i decide that you can all see my face and get to know the face behind this and i know their is lot of prejudice about women especially when you talk openly about the pleasure in SEX and you are seen as a symbol of SEX and knowing that you understand the sweetness, pleasure, and satisfaction you derived in SEX, but still Making Love is the father of all. I want you all to always remember that GOD love’s us more than we know, he created us wonderfully and beautifully and he believe that our body needs pleasure so he gave us the freedom to be together as one, enjoy ourselves without depriving each other. God is not against sex, but GOD wants us to be faithful to each other and do it in the right content. Remember that denying yourself the opportunity to pleasure in having sex to the fullest doesn’t just cheat you out of pleasure, it cheats you out of a full and happy life. And always remember that i say SEX IS FOOD and it full you up. SEX IS FOOD i have always had women saying to their husband is it food and myself also with experience had men saying its not food. The word of God is a spiritual food, the food we eat filled our physical body and as well SEX IS AN EMOTIONAL FOOD AND NEEDS and its very necessary that we are emotionally filled up. Read the word of God and you will realised that he instruct us not to deprived each other and if for any reason we choose to do that it as to be agreed by both parties involve in the relationship that is in our (Marriage). Positive genital image very important that we have a positive genital image, admire, adore your men sexual instrument and the work it does and also the men to appreciate the warmth that the vaginal brings to their HEART and SOUL. Having a close relationship, friendship, togetherness, washing plates together in the kitchen, having similar hobbies, outing, eating out or as a family allow us to have desire for sensual romance and create intimacy and also result in intimacy between men and women and nourish your sex life and it flourish and if possible never say know to your man especially when he seek to have sexual pleasure with you even when you are upset with him. Africa men help with the housework and you will definitely get more sex. I believe by now you all want to have a bit of insight to my sex life, its great and for the first time in my life am selfish when it come to sex and i understand why am having sex and its not only about pleasing my man but mostly for myself because i know i need to have it and i understand the pleasure you derived in having sex as much as a man does. Its not the effort the man is putting into making love with me but i live and dreamed it and make myself derived interest in making love with him. I love having making love with him and heaven knows it, he gives me so much pleasure and i just can’t get enough of him.From the moment he lay his hand on me or kiss my lips am like a wide animal and all over him, who says women don’t have erection We do. I do have erection, believe me even with the thought of him while driving i have erection and its difficult sitting in the car and sometimes I stop driving and call him to tell him I Love him and saying that relieve me and sometime i think am madly in love with him. I sincerely find it had to tell him he’s the best or tell someone am having the best time of my life Knowing they might start day dreaming, by now you are all dreaming and wanting to meet this MAN. I just lost control of myself with him and it doesn’t matter where we are either standing, sitting, chatting, walking, sleeping or eating we can make love and always making love with each other and with one another its FANTASTIC. His fingers does wonders, call it WONDER FINGERS even while am writing this I strongly want to get (IT) Sexy tips Good sex can be safer ... ... and safer sex can be very good. Good sex is one of the greatest joys that two adults can share with each other. It reinforces your emotional bond, relieves stress and it’s also a great workout. Another fantastic thing about sex is that the more you put into it, the more you get out of it. So rev up your husband/boyfriend’s libido with these fun tips and tricks and he’ll be sure to return the favor Men love O sex but remember not all of them and considering how they’re often the ones on top doing all the work, they deserve to just lay back and enjoy the ride from time to time. Begin by gently fondling him with one hand while simultaneously kissing his mouth or neck until he becomes erect. Without stopping the attention you’re giving him with your mouth, use that same hand to unbutton and unzip his pants, and remove his P from his boxers or underwear. Leave a trail of kisses down from his mouth, to his neck, down his chest and stomach until you reach his pelvic area. Make sure your mouth is sufficiently moist, then begin slowly Sk to lubricate him. From there, you can switch back and forth between several techniques to keep him consistently stimulated. Try licking his entire length from base to head, swirling your tongue around the tip and using your lips to vary the pressure as you suck. As he approaches climax, use one hand to grip him near the base while you stimulate the tip. That should push him over the edge. This is just the first tip of the month. I hope this column WILL being educative, interesting, fun, helpful, improve your sex life’s, add flavour, stability and more love in your relationships and marriages. As we know SEX is the most pleasurable thing and as women we need to embraces sex and improve on our sexual relationship. As a woman ask your man or talk to them about what you like and want them to pleasure you with(Oral sex) if you want ask and pleasure yourself in it, most men don’t like given oral sex as well as most women don’t and its all about the way we define sex, moral and what we feel is cool. I know that its a big step when i decide that you can all see my face and get to know the face behind this and i know their is lot of prejudice about women especially when you talk openly about the pleasure in SEX and you are seen as a symbol of SEX and knowing that you understand the sweetness, pleasure, and satisfaction you derived in SEX, but still Making Love is the father of all. I want you all to always remember that GOD love’s us more than we know, he created us wonderfully and beautifully and he believe that our body needs pleasure so he gave us the freedom to be together as one, enjoy ourselves without depriving each other. God is not against sex, but GOD wants us to be faithful to each other and do it in the right content. Remember that denying yourself the opportunity to pleasure in having sex to the fullest doesn’t just cheat you out of pleasure, it cheats you out of a full and happy life. And always remember that i say SEX IS FOOD and it full you up. SEX IS FOOD i have always had women saying to their husband is it food and myself also with experience had men saying its not food. The word of God is a spiritual food, the food we eat filled our physical body and as well SEX IS AN EMOTIONAL FOOD AND NEEDS and its very necessary that we are emotionally filled up. Read the word of God and you will realised that he instruct us not to deprived each other and if for any reason we choose to do that it as to be agreed by both parties involve in the relationship that is in our (Marriage). Positive genital image very important that we have a positive genital image, admire, adore your men sexual instrument and the work it does and also the men to appreciate the warmth that the vaginal brings to their HEART and SOUL. Having a close relationship, friendship, togetherness, washing plates together in the kitchen, having similar hobbies, outing, eating out or as a family allow us to have desire for sensual romance and create intimacy and also result in intimacy between men and women and nourish your sex life and it flourish and if possible never say know to your man especially when he seek to have sexual pleasure with you even when you are upset with him. Africa men help with the housework and you will definitely get more sex. I believe by now you all want to have a bit of insight to my sex life, its great and for the first time in my life am selfish when it come to sex and i understand why am having sex and its not only about pleasing my man but mostly for myself because i know i need to have it and i understand the pleasure you derived in having sex as much as a man does. Its not the effort the man is putting into making love with me but i live and dreamed it and make myself derived interest in making love with him. I love having making love with him and heaven knows it, he gives me so much pleasure and i just can’t get enough of him.From the moment he lay his hand on me or kiss my lips am like a wide animal and all over him, who says women don’t have erection We do. I do have erection, believe me even with the thought of him while driving i have erection and its difficult sitting in the car and sometimes I stop driving and call him to tell him I Love him and saying that relieve me and sometime i think am madly in love with him. I sincerely find it had to tell him he’s the best or tell someone am having the best time of my life Knowing they might start day dreaming, by now you are all dreaming and wanting to meet this MAN. I just lost control of myself with him and it doesn’t matter where we are either standing, sitting, chatting, walking, sleeping or eating we can make love and always making love with each other and with one another its FANTASTIC. His fingers does wonders, call it WONDER FINGERS even while am writing this I strongly want to get (IT) Sexy tips Good sex can be safer ... ... and safer sex can be very good. Good sex is one of the greatest joys that two adults can share with each other. It reinforces your emotional bond, relieves stress and it’s also a great workout. Another fantastic thing about sex is that the more you put into it, the more you get out of it. So rev up your husband/boyfriend’s libido with these fun tips and tricks and he’ll be sure to return the favor Men love O sex but remember not all of them and considering how they’re often the ones on top doing all the work, they deserve to just lay back and enjoy the ride from time to time. Begin by gently fondling him with one hand while simultaneously kissing his mouth or neck until he becomes erect. Without stopping the attention you’re giving him with your mouth, use that same hand to unbutton and unzip his pants, and remove his P from his boxers or underwear. Leave a trail of kisses down from his mouth, to his neck, down his chest and stomach until you reach his pelvic area. Make sure your mouth is sufficiently moist, then begin slowly Sk to lubricate him. From there, you can switch back and forth between several techniques to keep him consistently stimulated. Try licking his entire length from base to head, swirling your tongue around the tip and using your lips to vary the pressure as you suck. As he approaches climax, use one hand to grip him near the base while you stimulate the tip. That should push him over the edge. This is just the first tip of the month.

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To A Fundraising Charity Event

To support the group in sending collected Items to Nigeria to support our work in setting up a charity shop for the Afro in Diaspora Center in Nigeria.

Saturday 25th September, 2010

At 4pm prompt

Cavan Crystal Hotel,
Dublin Road, Cavan County.

Afro in Diaspora is a new group committed to supporting Women, Men and Children in OUR HOMELAND Nigeria who live in poverty, need someone to support their dreams and experience a difference the best way they can.

Please we want to make a difference and you can help us by provide clothing, unneeded Items, computers, sewing machines for people overseas that are less fortunate than ourselves. Your donation of Items will be shipped to Nigeria and sold in our charity shop to support our work and peoples dream.



Guest Speaker

Nigerian Ambassador : HE Dr Kemafo Nonyerem Chikwe

Ticket €20.00


RSVP: Susuana 0863969526/Vera 0879257654
Website: www.ADCenter.yolasite.com
Email: adcenter25@yahoo.ie
Blogspot: www.adcenter25.blogspot.com

PATRICIA OLUFEMI "AFRICA DUBLIN BASE MODEL"

My Exclusive interview with Patricia Olufemi @ the Dublin Ankara Festival. Patricia is someone whom I have come to fall in love with since she grace my Afro Fashion Show as one of our special guest, she is humble, a beauty to the core, she is what i call 'class of a beauty'. She is now Ireland Africa based Model full of inspiration, challenges but with hopes and opportunities. Am proud to say that apart from been Africa, she is a Nigeria. She is representing Distinct Model Management, a student and a daughter. She is a christian with the fear of God. The full details is coming out in the African Voice NewsPaper Ireland & on my Radio Show on Cavanonlineradio.weebly.com JEWELRY DESIGNER; OYINBO ATATA Oyinbo Atata married to Makinwa and a "Jewelry Designer" will be present at the "Africa History Month Ireland 2013" she is one of the women that will grace the event with some of her great work and will be selling them @ discount price. You can Call her now to order so that you can be wearing yours at the event. Supporting her means promoting women, giving her a voice, embarrassing the integration. "Afro Fashion Blast"